gettin' her

When two ladies are in a verbal confrontation, there is always someone who is falling back (the impending loser) and someone who is gettin' the other (the impending victor).

Basically, when two bitches are screaming back and forth at each other, the one who's obviously winning is "gettin' her".

"The all up in each other's face "Mutha! Mutha! Mutha!", but what I DID notice, Deelishis was gettin' her." -Buckeey (From Flavor of Love during NY and Deelishis' fight in the bathroom)